Friday, August 20, 2010

How did you know you were in labor?

this probably seems stupid, i am on my second pg and with my first i was uncomfortable but not miserable or in alot of pain. i ended up get induced and an epidural at 3 cm. so i don't really know what its like to go into labor on your own. i know what they say wait till you can time the contractions wait till they get to 5 mins apart. i know all that but im still afraid i wont know or ill go like a thousand times. can anyone tell me what you went through and how you just ';knew'; to go to l%26amp;d. im sure im such a whimp ill go anyway but i don't want to rush if there's no need.





p.s i have been having alot of bh and even some regular contractions and alot of pressure. all different from my first pg so i just wanted to know. thanks you.How did you know you were in labor?
i just knew i didnt have any contractions or signs all day and i sat down and started getting cramping like feelings and then all of the sudden the pain was soo bad i couldnt talk right then i knew this is it.How did you know you were in labor?
I've had three kids, and all three were different. With the first I was induced. With the second, my water broke (at home thankfully!) and with my third, I had contractions for about two months. And even though some were painful, I always watched the time and checked for intensity increases which never came about. But the weird thing is, I knew the instant I had the first ';real'; contraction because it felt extremely different than the ones I'd been having. It actually woke me up around 5:30 am it was so painful. And they started like clockwork every 5 minutes and hurt more when I moved.





Just remember to relax and trust your instincts. When in doubt, call your doctor.





Best wishes!

How many waves are in a level of ';Last Stand Mode'; in Splinter Cell: Conviction?

My buddies are playing through trying to get the achievement for beatint each level on realistic mode... but they just keep going. When will it stop!? O.o lolHow many waves are in a level of ';Last Stand Mode'; in Splinter Cell: Conviction?
The waves are endless man. And personally, I would put the difficulty on Rookie if you're going for that achievement because it's hard. Really hard. I love a challenge but getting that achievement on Rookie was challenge enough.

How do I make the whole bigger?

Hi. There is a whole in the wall between me and my sister's bedroom. Sometimes when she is changing I like to look through the whole. But lately I have gotten eye strain because the whole is too small. How do I make the whole bigger without her noticing the difference?How do I make the whole bigger?
You may want to ask this question in the ';mental health section';How do I make the whole bigger?
Uh listen this a place for people who ask serious questions


I think your sis ought to tell your parents you're a perv in training


and get you some serious help. Otherwise please refrain from


wasting space and time of others who are here for an honest


bit of advice and help. GROW UP!!
It's a shame your parents couldn't read this, I'm sure they'd be very proud. As a matter of fact, why not ask them how to do this, I'm sure your dad would have a very definite answer for you.
Stick your head through it dope
Get a life and learn how to spell.
MAKE THE HOLE AS BIG AS THE ONE IN YOUR HEAD YOU NO GOOD BASTARD!!!!!!!!
The whole what?
You are sick, get some help.
Ask your sister.

How can I get my hair to grow longer?10 points!?

Okay, so I'm African American and my hair is at the nape of my neck but my hair grows way longer in the front than in the back and I at least want to grow it just about over my chest. Now I'm straying away from getting my hair permed and alot of new growth has come so I just really need to know how to get it to grow longer. So, if I start this month and try it through August how long will my hair be then? Please leave any tips or products that you use and tell how they have worked for you! Thanks.How can I get my hair to grow longer?10 points!?
brushing your hair and massaging your scalp increases blood flow which increases growth. also i'm pretty sure you can take vitamins for your hair to make it healthier and grow longer. :]





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http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>How can I get my hair to grow longer?10 points!?
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you should have more vitamins, trim it once in a while. it should work.
I'm African American too. Well try eating alot of calcium and iorn, then try perming it with ';DR. MIRACLE'S'; perm even if you are tring to staying away from perm right now, it;s great, then a week later wash it like every other day with ';MIRACLE 7'; shampoo and conditioner, use some of that ';ion'; stuff. Hope it helped!
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  • How can I write a letter to someone I don't know with out sounding weird?

    Ok, this is a long story but it's worth it so please read it all and tell me what you think. Ten points for best answer!





    I have a friend (she's one of my best friends actually) that knows some one that is going through a tough time in life. She is adopted, had been through abuse, recently ran away, and now is in a recovery center. She goes to a Church in my area and most of my friends know her I just never met her. On her face book page (her mother made it for her to show her how many people support and love her because she is going through such a tough time) it says ';Please send Alice* your love and support to this address because she is going through a hard time and needs support.'; I really want to send her a letter because she is one of my best friend's friends. I do not know her though and I do not know what to say. Any advice?How can I write a letter to someone I don't know with out sounding weird?
    Just tell her that even through you don't know each other. That you know a friend of hers. Tell her that if she needs someone her own age to talk to, that you are there without any judgments.How can I write a letter to someone I don't know with out sounding weird?
    Just tell her what you said to us '; That she is your best friends friend, and say how she always talks about how she is going through a tough time and needs encouragement, and tell her that even though you do not know her personally you are concerned for her, and you want her to know that she is loved by many people. then tell her anything else you want to say. It is really nice of you to write to her. People love it when they know that even people they don't know love them, and care about them. It will probably mean alot! Good Luck! (:
    Like Momma Kitty said, say in her blog that you don't know her but know a friend of hers who told you about her problems. Then, say how much you're rooting for her.

    How can i get him to leave me alone?

    This guy that goes to the same university as me I barely know through a mutual friend. I get the feeling, and rumor says hes just interested in me sexually. He seems nice enough but I'm just not interested in him and feel he may be disrespectful to women anyway. I've told him no to ';hanging out'; parties and dates several times. Numerous times. But he won't leave me alone. What can I say to finally make him stop claiming he likes me, and just leave me alone?How can i get him to leave me alone?
    tell him you have herpes, and possibly aids, and if that doesnt work say you have boy parts in your southern region not girl parts as he may think

    How do I unfreeze my Apple iPod?

    My iPod froze on a particular song this morning whilst plugged into my iStation and now I can't get it to do anything at all. It won't scroll back through the menu and won't turn off.





    Does anyone know if this is a common thing with the iPod and how I can fix it?





    CheersHow do I unfreeze my Apple iPod?
    reset it .. if it has a scroll wheel, then you have to press and hold the Play/Pause and Menu buttons until the screen flashes and you see an apple logo (around 8 seconds)





    if that doesnt help, then try pressing center button (select) and Menu button for several seconds.





    its not very common, but happens. I had this happen to me twice in several years...How do I unfreeze my Apple iPod?
    good answer!

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    How old is too old to hide your religion and your personality from your family?

    I'm 24. I'm about to graduate college, and my immediate family are all coming into town to see me for the celebration.





    My family is very conservative and very -very- Christian. I am not. As soon as I moved away from them, I was finally able to live the life I wanted in the open and unabashedly. My room has an altar to my god, and is else wise generally decorated in ways they would not approve.





    They'll be here in about a week, and as I was preparing I found myself starting to go through the usual ritual of hiding all of my religious paraphernalia and the odds and ends they would find displeasing, and I stopped. I'm a grown woman. Why am I still doing this?





    What do you think? How old is too old to play these games with the people who raised and fed you for 18 years?





    Oh, and if your only answer is going to be ';You should be a Christian, heathen, Jesus loves you,'; or something similar, save it. Please. That's great that you're happy being who you are, but I don't give half a s***t, and I'm not going to convert.How old is too old to hide your religion and your personality from your family?
    My mom ';came out'; about her choice in religion (Unitarian Universalism) to her parents and brothers at the end of when she was in college. We still don't openly talk about our differences when visiting my moms side of the family. They are extremely conservative methodists and her and my dad are pretty liberal. I think it is different for every person though. I know some peoples families would actually cut off contact. I think what you should base it on is what your comfortable with. If you think they will freak and disown you, it might be worth it to hide it, or maybe it isn't. There really isn't a certain age that is too old to be hiding stuff from your family. Maybe reveal a little at a time? I hope all goes well if that's what you decide to do. :)How old is too old to hide your religion and your personality from your family?
    I think that sounds good. Good luck! :)

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    i wouldn't recommend you flaunt your religious or political views to people who are against whatever you're practicing. it's no one else's business, anyway. i don't see why it has to be brought up as a topic of conversation during a visit.





    maybe you're hiding your personal items so you don't have to listen to hypocritical christian preaching.
    I truley feel for your situation, but Jesus Christ is the answer and the only way to heaven. Please think about it.





    You may not believe in Heaven or Hell, but that doesnt mean they arent real. There is still time for you, but please dont wait to long. We never know when our time here is up ya know.
    For goodness' sake, let's eat some cake.

    How do shooting stars work?

    A shooting star is a meteor moving fast enough through the air to create heat and light of its own. But if space is a vacuum, what air is there for it to cause the friction to create heat and light?How do shooting stars work?
    A meteoroid only becomes a meteor (shooting star) once it has entered Earth's atmosphere. Meteoroids are just dust or pebbles in space before then, moving fast relative to the Earth. The friction/compression from their motion through the atmosphere usually obliterates them. If one of them does not burn up completely, but rather impacts the ground, then it is a meteorite.How do shooting stars work?
    Its entering the Earths atmosphere! It doesnt burn in space!

    How do you play fake mommy and wife to make everyone else happy?

    so i was told by my childs counselor that i need to give up on wanting my 7 and almost 6 year old to clean up after their self with their toys. and I need to let it go that my house has toys that have small pieces that my 10 month old daughter can choke on.


    i need to not tell my son he is being bad and i need to have fun time with my kids and them not have to paick up the toys and games after wards. I need to clean up after everyone instead. I need to not nag at my husband for ever spending time with our kids and me since he is always working and sleeping. I was pretty much told that I need to not be irritated that I have defiant kids that dont have any since of cleanliness and I just just be fine with it. so how do i pull this off for the rest of my life?


    how do I put on a act that I am happy being a servant to my husband and my 3 kids on top of cleaning up after my self?





    how do I act happy 24:7 with out showing that I am truely miserable?


    I know I will have atleast once a week when my husband is at work in the middle of the night and the kids are asleep at 3am where I can just cry and cry and cry but is that really enough to get me through turning my self into a fake person on purpose??How do you play fake mommy and wife to make everyone else happy?
    You cannot change the world, just your reaction to it





    Find a new counciller! There is a happy medium to be found this isnt anywhere near it!!





    When I felt I was maid rather than Mum we readjusted by:


    Kids: With advance warning so they know whats expected %26amp; consequences: Toys with little pieces are palyed with in their bedroom wher younger child isnt allowed unsupervised. Any toy/pieces left in the lounge room etc are removed , put them in a box %26amp; return them after a week. If it happens again confiscated for 2 weeks , 3rd time theyre off to charity. Stick to it you'll donate maybe twice..


    Bedroom , if I can close the door I will through the week. Come weekend you WILL clean it before going to friends houses etc. Clothes not put out to wash will not be washed. They WILL take plates from the table to be washed %26amp; wash them (or load washer)





    If your son is misbehaving he needs to be pulled up on it, better now that at 14yo ( I have one of them, very trying sometimes).I dont know that telling him 'he' is bad is productive. We always called the 'action' bad. I m sure he is a good child, just makes some bad choices. Explain to him whats not acceptable and why. It is bad when you do this because this could happen, or that was a bad decission/choice because... Just remember he is a child %26amp; doesnt have your thought processes, so will not always see what you think is glairingly obvious. Choose your battles if its little %26amp; has its own consequences (that of course wont see him to hospital) ask him not to do it because... if he doesnt listen let him find out the hard way. I found with my boy when I spoke they often heard '; no no no blah blah blah'; the above actually seems to translate my words into boy speak!





    Growing up in an all girl home I never listened %26amp; thought it was a cop out when people told me boys are different to girls. Then I had 2 and hmmmm I owe some apologies for assumtions past made. My boys will totally subconsiouslstep over an errant toy, ask them to pick it up %26amp; they say what?, ';that toy';, where? My daughter can spot a crumb on the floor from the next room!


    I used to totally stress over what youre describing. I learnt to allocate responsibility.If Im doing something for the family %26amp; Hubbys watching TV the kids will walk past Dad to come to me for help. I ask what Dads doing %26amp; send them to him, he often (always) says what did Mum say, My reply , Im busy doing this could you help please Daddy. Then Im not the bad guy for saying no (again), Im not trying to do everything %26amp; Hubby becomes more involved by default.





    Talk to your Husband too explain how youre feeling %26amp; how its impacting your familys relationships. Ive had mine tell me to just relax its not that bad. He also works 14 hr weekdays %26amp; most Sats on admin at home so doent see most of it just a frazzled stressed out me screaming on weekends. He started to realise It was that big a deal when I stopped killing myself to do everything. His office a mess oh well, he did it, his area, he now fixes it. Didnt you get blahhh from the shops for me today? No sorry I did ABCDEF instead, I'll try to make it tomorrow but I DO need to do ABC as well.





    When you move yourself up the priority list the others will notice and respect it. You just need to do it productivly. If help is recieved reward it with your time %26amp; praise. If they dont help when they ask for (incidental) help or to play let them know, sorry Id like to but I need to ..... because no one else did.





    Imprortantly DO make time to play with them. Our children ARE our work, not the cause of or interuption to it. Accept that you have a home that isnt always going to look like its a magazine shoot, be rewarded by the smiles that COULD be.





    You can not change other people, just your reactions to them. It takes time %26amp; practice but it makes your world a happier place.





    Good Luck :)





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    Ok not putting the cap on the toothpaste is just lazy :(


    Mine would be getting called to the bathroom to put it on. They will protest that it would have been easier for you to do it but remind them had they done it 1st you wouldnt have needed to %26amp; your task was interupted because of it, so you interupted them. They tend to remember better when you dont pick up the slack %26amp; they are inconvenianced.





    Try an end of day packup. I work on 5pm toy pickup , 5:30 baths start, 6dinner ,7 dishes ,7:30 family board game or tv or individual QUIET activity, 8pm 1st one off to bed, other tv or reading til their respective bedtimes. This isnt run to the minute but everyone knows baths start at 5:30 or dinner is late etc %26amp; its their leisure time thats cut back because bedtimes rarely shift.





    If the toys are in their room, I agree with Hubby, just close the door %26amp; sigh there are bigger battles to fight. Toy collections really start to thin out around 8-9yo so youre in the home straight now Ma.How do you play fake mommy and wife to make everyone else happy?
    what i think you need to do is get your child a new counselor! that is ridicules, the counselor is basically telling you to roll over and be a doormat and let you children run to house...yea..that's really gonna fix things :S
    that is rediculous. they need to be cleaning up after themselves
    Your children need to be cleaning up after them self. My children are 5 and 3 they clean up after them self.... I am a pre-k teacher and that is a self help skill that the children have to learn is clean up after them self. My children know that if they dont clean up after them self or they dont play. They will just sit on the couch or go out side... My children learn to clean up after them selves at 2. We still help my son a little, but he does most by him self.
    Seriously, time for a new counselor. You should NOT have to pretend to be happy to make everyone else happy.





    You should also get a counselor for yourself to help you overcome some of this. You are at risk of being depresed (if you are not already--I would be in your situation). You also might need to find some compromises to make family life work for you. You are not a servant to your husband and children, and you should not be expected to be such. Being a mom is hard work, but we serve out of love. AND you are doing a good thing teaching children responsibility. You may also want to take your husband to counseling so you can talk with him about how you feel, and address the ';always working and sleeping'; issue you are having. Perhaps he sees things differently.





    You should definitely have fun with your kids. You can do things outdoors that don't need to be picked up. And if they want to do something that DOES have to be picked up, set the rule that they will be picking up with you right after you are done.





    Try picking your battles with your children. i.e. they can have their rooms any way they want, and they don't have to pick up except like once a month (or twice a month...just for sanitary issues), BUT they must keep their doors shut, and they cannot have the baby in their rooms. Shared spaces in the house MUST be kept picked up. Just let them know that if you have to pick up their things, you will throw them away.





    You will just have to find what works for you...and it will be a process. Good luck.
    Whoever told you all this obviously has no idea what they're talking about.


    I don't have children myself, and I am in no way a child expert, but I have worked with a lot of kids. I watch a lot of Dr. Oz, haha.


    There is one thing this person said that I agree with, telling kids they are ';bad';. I don't think this is a productive way of teaching kids what is right and wrong. They need to know what happens when they do something wrong, their consequences, and what happens when they do something right, the rewards. They also need to understand that everyone in the household needs to work together to have a happy (and clean) environment. It doesn't matter how old a child is! They could be one or ten years old, it's never too late to start working on behavior and the responsibilities they should have. It might seem like a lot of hard work and effort to make changes now, but of course they will take time, but you won't regret it. Try things like creating a schedule for each individual child. Kids like to show they can do things by themselves, and they are proud when they can show ';Look what I did all by myself!'; Create a list of things to do right when they wake up...Step 1.) Eat breakfast Step 2.) Brush teeth....etc etc. Whatever you do in your day. Having a routine is very important, consistency. Whenever they do something right they get a sticker next to the sctivity, and if they do everything in a day, or everything in a week, your choice, they get something they really want (YOUR choice) like a family movie night they pick out, or some dessert. This is all up to you. When they don't do what they're told or don't complete a task, you need to make sure you follow through with a punishment. In my opinion, this should never be something like a spanking or physical. More like a time out using a timer, or something else that teaches them why what they did was wrong, and give another try.


    You, your husband, and all your children need to work together to create a happy environment in your home, so EVERYONE can be happy (including YOU!!)


    :-)
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  • How to buy used car from a different state (in US)?

    I want a specific car model of a specific company from a range of years (2004 through 2006, any one is fine with me) - features and options are immaterial (I will get them updated later if they are not there). Based on this requirement, I can't find any car dealer (at least from yahoo autos) in my city/state offering me a used car of my choice. But I can find a couple of them in different states (I am from CA, I found matching cars meeting my choice and requirements and costs in NY, OH for instance).





    My question is: how can I arrange to buy cars from different states? I want them to be inspected first before buying them (so I plan to have my car mechanic physically and personally inspect the car before I commit to buy). Is it possible? Are there car dealers spanning across states that can help bring cars to my city and I (and my car mechanic) inspect it and then proceed to buy it - it can also happen I don't like it and reject the deal. Who will pay for bringing the car to my city and take it back if I dont like it? How much will cost me extra?





    Thanks in advance!How to buy used car from a different state (in US)?
    You are looking at a lot of headaches and hassles if you want to purchase an out of State vehicle without seeing it yourself first before purchase......there are many other websites that list vehicles for sale in CA - autotrader, ebay, your local newspaper, and others.....you may want to look at those before thinking about a vehicle in some other State. If you choose to go out of the State, you will need to find some company that is trustworthy, has a guarantee of inspection ( and maybe even a $ back guarantee if the vehicle does not meet your qualifications ), and pay for the transportation of the vehicle - another expense %26amp; possible damagesHow to buy used car from a different state (in US)?
    Are you high ?





    Do you REALLY think someone is going to PAY to ship a car across the country and give you the opportunity to change your mind ?





    Wake UP !





    Find a car near you.
    Very dumb idea, don't try it.
    Besides the problems others mention buying out of state, cars in California maintain their appearance and reliability longer, have no rust problems (except within a few miles of the coast), etc. If you're looking at cars 4-6+ years old, California's lack of temperature and weather extremes, no salt on roads, make cars more valuable than from Northeast or Midwest. When you're ready to buy, run CARFAX to make sure car has spent its life in CA. Smart people from elsewhere come TO California or Southwest to buy our premium used cars and take them home.

    So how does one get into heaven? Is it all about accepting jesus christ or is it about doing good deeds?

    I was also curious if God gives out progess reports mid way through one's life to see how much more they need to do in order to get into heaven.So how does one get into heaven? Is it all about accepting jesus christ or is it about doing good deeds?
    You have to buy a stairway.So how does one get into heaven? Is it all about accepting jesus christ or is it about doing good deeds?
    Its all about following cheesus christ
    by receiving Jesus
    nope, u just have to love jesus


    buy some knee pads, chapstick, and KY
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    It's through Jesus. The ';good deeds'; is Christ being shown through us. They don't save us but if a christian isn't showing sacrificial love, I question how much they really want to be like Christ.
    It's about doing good deeds. It has nothing to do with Jesus.
    Believe that you have sinned and need repentance. Believe that God sent His Son Jesus Christ to die on earth for your sins and rose from the dead to fulfill prophecy. If Jesus didn't rise from the dead, everything He did couldn't be credible. If you believe you need to repent and need Jesus, you will be saved.


    Check out the Bible:


    John 3:16


    Acts 16:31





    If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that He rose from the dead, you will be saved.
    It's both. If you accept God then you will naturally act out that faith by doing good deeds. Good deeds without faith are worthless. Faith without good deeds is empty. However, it starts by trusting in God and walking in His way.





    It would be nice if we had a sin-o-meter that would flash red when we were heading to Hell or green when we were on our way to Heaven, but all we have is a well-informed conscience.
    The Bible is contradictory on this:





    Salvation is by faith alone.


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    Mark 16:16


    He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved; but he that believeth not shall be damned.





    John 3:18, 36


    He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already .... He that believeth on the Son hath everlasting life: and he that believeth not the Son shall not see life; but the wrath of God abideth on him.





    Acts 16:30-31


    Sirs, what must I do to be saved? And they said, Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved, and thy house.





    Romans 1:16-17


    For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God salvation to every one that believeth.... As it is written, The just shall live by faith.





    Romans 3:20


    By the deeds of the law there shall no flesh be justified in his sight.





    Romans 3:28


    A man is justified by faith without the deeds of the law.





    Romans 4:2


    For if Abraham were justified by works he hath whereof to glory?





    Romans 4:13


    For the promise ... was not to Abraham, or to his seed, through the law, but through the righteousness of faith.





    Romans 5:1


    Therefore, being justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ.





    Romans 10:9


    If thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.





    Galatians 2:16


    A man is not justified by the works of the law, but by the faith of Jesus Christ.





    Galatians 3:11-12


    The just shall live by faith. And the law is not of faith.





    Ephesians 2:8-9


    For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: not of works, lest any man should boast.





    Titus 3:5


    Not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to his mercy he saved us, by the washing of regeneration, and renewing of the Holy Ghost.











    Salvation is not by faith alone.


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    Psalm 62:12


    For you render to each one according to his works.





    Proverbs 10:16


    The labour of the righteous tendeth to life: the fruit of the wicked to sin.





    Jeremiah 17:10


    I the Lord ... give every man according to his ways, and according to the fruit of his doings.





    Ezekiel 18:27


    When the wicked man turneth away from his wickedness ... and doeth that which is lawful and right, he shall save his soul.





    Matthew 5:20


    Except your righteousness shall exceed the righteousness of the scribes and Pharisees, ye shall in no case enter into the kingdom of heaven.





    Matthew 12:37


    For by thy words thou shalt be justified, and by thy words thou shalt be condemned.





    Matthew 16:27


    For the Son of Man will come in the glory of His Father with His angels, and then He will reward each according to his works.





    Matthew 19:17


    If you want to enter into life, keep the commandments.





    Matthew 25:41-46


    Then shall he say also unto them on the left hand, Depart from me, ye cursed, into everlasting fire, prepared for the devil and his angels: For I was an hungred, and ye gave me no meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me no drink: I was a stranger, and ye took me not in: naked, and ye clothed me not: sick, and in prison, and ye visited me not. Then shall they also answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee an hungred, or athirst, or a stranger, or naked, or sick, or in prison, and did not minister unto thee? Then shall he answer them, saying, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye did it not to one of the least of these, ye did it not to me. And these shall go away into everlasting punishment: but the righteous into life eternal.





    Luke 10:26-28


    He said unto him, What is written in the law? how readest thou? And he answering said, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy strength, and with all thy mind; and thy neighbour as thyself. And he said unto him, Thou hast answered right: this do, and thou shalt live.





    John 5:29


    And shall come forth; they that have done good, unto the resurrection of life; and they that have done evil, unto the resurrection of damnation.





    Romans 2:6, 13


    Who will render to each one according to his deeds. ... For not the hearers of the law are just in the sight of God, but the doers of the law will be justified.





    2 Corinthians 5:10


    For we must all appear before the jugment seat of Christ, that each one may receive the things done in the body, according to what he has done, whether good or bad.





    2 Corinthians 11:15


    Therefore it is no great thing if his ministers also transform themselves into ministers of righteousness, whose end will be according to their works.





    Philippians 2:12


    ';Work out your own salvation with fear and trembling.';





    James 2:14


    What does it profit, my brethren, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? Can faith save him?





    James 2:17


    Thus also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead.





    James 2:21-25


    Was not Abraham our father justified by works? You see then that a man is justified by works, and not by faith only. Likewise, was not Rabab the harlot also justified by works? For as the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without works is dead also.





    1 Peter 1:17


    The Father, who without partiality judges according to each one's work.





    Revelation 2:23


    I will give unto every one of you according to your works.





    Revelation 20:12-13


    And I saw the dead, small and great, stand before God; and the books were opened: and another book was opened, which is the book of life: and the dead were judged out of those things which were written in the books, according to their works. And the sea gave up the dead which were in it; and death and hell delivered up the dead which were in them: and they were judged every man according to their works.





    Revelation 22:14


    Blessed are they that do his commandments, that they may have right to the tree of life.
    Very few people get to heaven, very, very few. But don't worry, none, go to hell, hell is an invention of man to scare others. What sort of loving God would God be if he condemned people to torture for eternity. God IS Love.
    accepting Jesus Christ is only the first step of the ladder onwards to heaven.


    there are many higher steps to take ..





    live by the Law.


    the Law defines sin.


    and good deeds too.
    This is a good explanation of what the Bible teaches:





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    I hope you're not making fun and actually want an answer. It isn't about good deeds, anybody can do good deeds without being good people. It's about accepting Jesus as your savior and letting yourself become engulfed in a relationship with h\Him.
    It's about accepting Jesus Christ into your life and following God. When you become a Christian, God helps you evolve so you feel more like doing good deeds. Know that God can help you live a better life. You can have a personal relationship with God by saying the prayer below. God is our Creator, all-knowing, all-powerful, eternal, holy, love. God loves us and sent us His Son, Jesus Christ, so we can go to heaven if we know and follow Him. Forever means without end -- time on and on without death. Forever is what happens after we die. Either we go to heaven and be with God forever, or we go to hell which is very bad and painful forever. The good people who are saved believers in Jesus Christ go to heaven. The bad people go to hell. We need to know and follow God in this world to get to heaven in the next world. We follow God by loving and obeying Him and loving others for Him. Jesus Christ, God's Son, is our bridge to God. Jesus died on the cross to cancel our sins. We need to accept Jesus into our life as our Lord and Savior forever to receive God's blessing and forgiveness plus go to heaven to be with God forever after we die. This is about being a born-again Christian. Faith in God is a gift from God. You can pray for faith in God. Just speak out and ask God for the faith to believe in Him and to follow Him. Some people find faith in God when they realize the beauty in the world is made by God. Evolution can't explain the world's natural beauty, for example, the parks in the world, animals, flowers, peacocks, sunsets, butterflies, rainbows, etc. After you have your faith on, you can pray a sinner's prayer to be a born-again Christian. This prayer is very important and should be said with a sincere heart and faith in God. This is the prayer: ';Dear God, I know that I am a sinner and that Jesus Christ is the sacrifice for our sins. I have done the following sins (state these out) and I pray to discontinue these sins. I pray to receive Jesus Christ into my life as my Lord and Savior forever. In Jesus' name, amen.'; I'm Lutheran and I like the Baptist churches too. You could check out a Christian church youth group or Bible study group to learn about God's will for your life. You can pray to God about your daily life and have a Christian church pray for you.

    How to convince parents?

    Alright so I asked this like a month ago and didn't get good enough answers so i am going to ask again. For the past 5 months I have been dating an Asian (i am a male by the way) who's parents don't believe in dating because they think that she will just have sex with the guy and he will break up with her once her gets what he wants, aka i will dump her once i get what i want from her. But quite frankly, I don't care about sex or sexual activities.





    They recently found out we were dating and told her she dis honored the family and their ancestors. They are making her chose between me and them. She is now under a lot of pressure and very confused. She was balling her eyes out all day today and the next time we talk she is going to ask me what i think she should do. I am going to be honest, I have no idea, usually i just tell her to follow her heart and do what she feels is right but that won't work this time. I want to give her good advice on how to handle this situation. She doesn't want to lose her parent's respect and trust but she also doesn't want to lose me.





    What should she do? Should she give into her parents or try to convince them? Should she just leave me behind and go with her parents? Is there any possible way to convince them that I am not in this for sex and that I actually have feelings for her? Any advice would help. She is going through a really tough time right now and I want to help her through it. The last thing she wants is to hurt her parents and lose me.How to convince parents?
    I think the best way is too arange a dinner with her parents , u and her. Dress formally and show the real self inside you. U also hae to show that u really love her, not jsut beacuase u wanna have sex with her. I think that will gain the parents respect to u and ur gf wont lose wither u or ur parents.





    Good luck!How to convince parents?
    Talk To her parents make them understand , and if they don't understand break up with her or at least pretend to . but if she chooses you , she will lose all respect of her parents and they will never trust her again . so yea those are the pros's and con's : )

    How do you get rid of Digital Protection?

    I never downloaded it, it just popped up ever since i got a trojan virus on my computer. I have gone through the add and remove process on controll panel but, Digital Protection is still there. I need to get rid of it because it is blocking Nortan internet security virus and wont let Nortan scan the virus please help i have no idea how to delete it.How do you get rid of Digital Protection?
    Restart your computer. Press F8 repeatedly. Then choose Safe Mode With Networking





    Run RKILL before you install Malwarebytes.





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    Download the free version of Malwarebytes.





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    Save Malwarebytes to your Desktop as x1x1x.exe, Then run it.





    After the installation is complete, check for updates, then run a full system scan.





    Restart your computer after the removal process.





    http://bestfree-spyware-virus-trojan-pro鈥?/a>How do you get rid of Digital Protection?
    Ok so this is not an awnser, but its related. I am having the same issue and have done all of the above. With the one exception being that i can not access the internet in safe mode with networking. Therefore it was all performed regularly. The files are now ';quarantined'; but I don't know how to tell if theyre deleted? I am no longer recieveing pop ups/ random porn shots on my desktop, but when i startup windows Digital protection tries to load and i get the taskbar icon. Which at this point if you click becomes blocked permanently, or so it says. How do I get this COMPLETELY off my pc? btw i am running on windows xp
    Step by step and free Digital Protection virus removal instructions:


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    I restarted my computer , kept clicking F8 to get into safe mode, I ran all my free anti-virus and spyware.. First I ran Avast anti-virus, then Spybot-Search and Destroy, and Malwarebyte's Anti-Malware. You can download them all for free right off google or yahoo. Download them, go into Safe Mode, and it will catch your problems, It may take more than an hour or two if you use all three, but if you want your computer working perfect again, it is definitly worth the wait of the scan's.

    How can I promote my youtube channel online?

    I have a small group of subscribers on my youtube channel and I want to find ways to have more people visit my site. It is a language learning channel where I am the teacher. So far I have many positive comments from my subscribers so I want to branch out but I also want to increase the traffic to my youtube channel and perhaps make a profit...





    How can I make a profit through my channel?


    How can I better promote my channel so that their are more visitors?





    Thank you to anyone reading!


    Any advice will be greatly appreciated :)How can I promote my youtube channel online?
    A great way to monetize your channel would be through the use of affiliate marketing. Affiliate marketing consists of selling somebody else's product usually for a share of the profit 50-75%. You can successfully profit from the youtube channel by posting teaser videos by giving away some useful but incomplete information and then prompting your users to click the affiliate link to get the entire scoop.





    You can promote your youtube channel through a number of free traffic generating avenues such as;





    Article Marketing: This is where you post articles about your subject in high traffic article directories. this will give you an initial burst of traffic as well as establish as an expert in your niche.





    Social Bookmarking: This is where you post your article onto social networking sites so that people can discuss them and discover more about your product.





    Youtube marketing: You can find popular videos about your subject and post a video response to them which will get you a lot of targeted traffic.





    Twitter: You can join twitter and network and communicate with people in your market their by sending out valuable content to them as well as build relationships and creating joint ventures for yourself.How can I promote my youtube channel online?
    Firstly to profit from your channel you will need to find ways to monetize it.


    This could be through adsense which google supports, as well as affiliate marketing. Perhaps amazon which sells language learning materials.





    As for promoting your channel, it is best you learn some search engine optimization techniques. You could try writing articles for infobarrel.com or ezine articles and link back to your site

    If a person dies with no relatives, how do they find your will? I mean, can you file it publicly?

    Or do they have to look through your house to find it?If a person dies with no relatives, how do they find your will? I mean, can you file it publicly?
    You can file a will in the county recorder's office. You'd still need something that would tell people where to look. I worked in a legal office on a military base and we did not maintain the originals of the wills...we sent people home with their originals and a checklist of things to gather up. What's generally recommended is get a fireproof box for your important documents. Give a copy of the will and any instructions to your executor with instructions on how to get to your original. Some people choose to give the original to the executor and put the copy with instructions on how to reach the executor in their fire-proof safe. Do NOT put it in a safe deposit box because once you die your box is locked until the will is executed...If a person dies with no relatives, how do they find your will? I mean, can you file it publicly?
    If the person has a will it should be with a lawyer. A will with no lawyer involved is usually not valid. So if they find a written will that says give everything to my cat, it would be ignored. In this case sadly no one would look for any will. The State would take ownership and contract people to prepare the home, probable for auction. They would put anything in the garbage.
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  • How old should the child/Teenager be , before the mother/father stops?

    1) Telling him/her when to shower?


    2) Going through their Wardrobe, to make sure its tidy?


    3) Comment on their clothing?


    4) Waking them up in the morning?


    5)Reminding them to do their homework?How old should the child/Teenager be , before the mother/father stops?
    18How old should the child/Teenager be , before the mother/father stops?
    1) around 12-13. that when my parents stopped.


    2) 11-12. they should be responsible.


    3) 15-16. that's usually when they start dressing ';different';


    4) when they get into high school.


    5) you should always do this.
    1) 12


    2) I don't see anything wrong with that, unless there's someting in there that shouldn't be


    3) Honestly, when the teenager has bought it themselves


    4) About 14


    5) 14
    I'd say when they get to high school because they should be behaving more responsibly by then. Everyone matures at different rates of course and just because mom or dad stops telling them when to do those things, does not mean that they wont need help/ instructions some of the time. Growing up is scary for the child/teen and for the mom/dad. I might suggest buying them an alarm clock for waking up in the morning, it's always helped me and it's nice to wake up to your favorite radio station in the morning. Good luck!





    -Kaylie!
    Unfortunatly for me I have to be reminded XP and i'm plenty old enough!


    I'm guessing based on my brother.....


    1)9-10


    2)9-11


    3)12-14


    4)10-11


    5)10-12
    1) 12-13


    2) 14-15


    3) any age


    4) 15-16


    5) 13-14
    This is not a matter of age, is a matter of confidence and maturity of the kid and the family.


    Some people believe that when their children are still living at their parent's home, even when they are adults, the parents have the right to monitor their way of life.


    If this is your case, try to do your homework before being asked, to keep your bedroom clean, to take a shower, etc, until they get to trust you more.


    Good luck!!!
    I've learned the earlier you start teaching them the easier it gets cuz then they know where u stand and what is expected of them b4 the hit thier hormonal teenage years


    :)and I think it depends on your child's personality. My child is 10 and i usually have to remind him to take a shower. Hopefully that'll change when he starts having crushes!


    #2 I will do a room check once a week to make sure HE'S keeping it tidy or when i do laundry. but keeping things tidy has been his responsibility since he was about 6.


    #3 I dont comment on his clothing unless they are dirty and have holes otherwise it's a losing battle because that is his style and it's not hurting anyone. Hopefully he'll just care more as he gets older!


    #4 A alarm clock might help


    #5Unless your kid loves to do homework I'm guessing you';ll have to remind him until he graduates!! if he /she knows you expect him to do his homework b4 anything else u probaly wont have to remind as much


    anyways... thier probally is no set age, you will know when, just trust your intuition. only you know whats best for your child even though they will remind you that you don't ;)


    - goodluck
    The parents should remain the parents until the child is ready to leave and pay for their own rent, apartment, food, clothing, bills, etc. As long as you live in your parent's home and depend on your parents for your food, clothing, bills, etc...then you need to abide by the rules and obey your parents. The least you can show them is respect. They shouldn't have to tell you to do your homework, wake you up, tell you to take a shower or remind you to clean your room. With all that they do and provide for you, you should be able to do chores on your own without being told.

    How much power would I lose running passive subwoofers through my front channel?

    How much power would I lose running passive subwoofers through my front channel? I have a Sony STDRH700 Receiver that 105 watts x 7 channels, at 8 ohms; two NXG NX-W8SUB passive in-wall subwoofers that are 150 watts, 8 ohms; and two 150 watt 8 ohm in-wall front speakers. I would run the front channels out to an impedence matching 150 watt volume control, and then out of the volume control to the pair of passive subs and then through the subs to the front speakers.





    Let me know what you think. Will I absolutely need an additional amplifier or any other gadgets? Is the volume control gonna actually improve anything? Im not looking to blow anyone away with this system, just to have enough bass to make movies and sports sound good in my family room thats 12' x 15'. ThanksHow much power would I lose running passive subwoofers through my front channel?
    While it would probably work I don't think it wouldn't work well enough for you to be happy. Total power for the front speakers would be divided between the subwoofer and regular speakers making both inefficient. If possible it might be a better idea to build a crossover network that would send just the very low frequencies to your subwoofers and all the higher frequencies to your regular in-wall speakers. This would allow all of the power from your amp to be delivered to the appropriate speakers with none of the power wasted.

    How they happen to be ';Quarter Sensed Worshipers'; who talk bad against Worshiping GOD thru Images from IDOL?

    Actually Vedic Sages devised a wonderful system of worship where we use our all five senses ( hear ,view , touch , smell ,taste) to feel about GOD .


    1:-We Hindus feel devotion to God on hearing word names like ';OM , Parmatma , Par Brahm ';, etc.


    2:- We feel devotion to God on seeing visuals ( images) like '; Three Eyed , Four Handed , Eight Handed, Glow of Sun %26amp; Fire ';.


    3:- We feel devotion to God with the smell %26amp; taste of Sacred Prasad ( eatable).


    4:- We feel devotion to God with the touch of Holy River while having holy dip in it .





    You must be aware that both sound and light energy emanating from certain source like an object , vocal chord or an instrument create sensation in our ear and eye respectively and create inner feelings .


    With certain specific sound names and visuals these feelings may be towards God , then why oppose images from idols ?


    I wish to add some words in this regard.


    Actually those talking bad about idol worship are misled %26amp; misguided people using only ';one sense (hear sense) i.e. quarter sense'; to feel about God as against using all ';five senses i.e. full sense';.


    Those talking bad about idols( misguided %26amp; misled) also oppose strongly %26amp; ridicule the fact that all forms of energy %26amp; matter are various forms of one God himself. All of them oppose proudly %26amp; spread misconception about our idol worship . Many of we Hindus have been influenced by them %26amp; do not have full faith %26amp; do worship half hearted.


    I request you also think about logics in support of idol worship of God and remove the misconceptions, half truths etc spread by ';quarter sensed worshippers';.





    One more fact, these quarter sensed worshippers propogate God's worship through one sense only (i.e. hear sense). that is why today in the world we can just hear goodness everywhere . We dont see , taste, smell ,touch goodness in the world.


    If we worship %26amp; feel about God through all senses, then God will send his all blessings to us.


    Even non believers feel about God on viewing idols of God ,though in negative way.


    You see Eight Handed form is beautiful small representation of God's manifestation in the form of Apera Parakrity( eight type i.e. earth, water, fire ,air ,sky, mind ,intelligence and sense of feeling separate from universe) and Pera Prakrity ( spritual energy i.e. innumerable living entities). Here eight hands represent apera prakrity and lion represents pera prakrity.


    Kindly ..... Please... one should never talk bad against worshipping God through idols . In this way one should not invite wrath of God and then long lasting hell.


    Thanks. Plz give your opinion.How they happen to be ';Quarter Sensed Worshipers'; who talk bad against Worshiping GOD thru Images from IDOL?
    We Christians go by the Bible. It tells me that idols are only wood and stone. They can't think, hear, speak, or do anything for people. We are not to make any graven images, bow down, or worship them. We are to worship the Lord God alone. ';Thou shalt worship the Lord thy God and him only shalt thou serve.'; ';I am the Lord and beside me there is no savior.'; ';I am the Lord. My glory will I not give to another, neither my praise to graven images.'; I believe the God of Israel is the only one.





    With so many gods, where do Hindus loyalties lie? Which god or gods do you serve? What happens if you serve one and not another? Does the other god get jealous and do something to you? In my personal life, I've prayed to God and always got help. I've proved him over and over. In the words of Joshua, ';As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.';How they happen to be ';Quarter Sensed Worshipers'; who talk bad against Worshiping GOD thru Images from IDOL?
    OWWWWW WALLLL OF TEXTTTT!!!!!!!!!!! make ur Q shorter
    @ Cindy





    Go do some non-Evangelical reading before you type more on the subject of idol worship. Hindus don't worship the image before them, we pray to God using the idol only as a way to focus our minds.





    Our loyalties lie with the omnipotent and impersonal being you only know as God. Our God does not have fits of rage or favor one group of people over another. Our God does not get jealous like yours does. Our God knows that people will not accept one man as the savior of mankind, no matter how pious of a life he lived.





    I'm tired of the brainless banter of so many Evangelical Christians. You can say these things but when you come against someone who knows what they're talking about you have no choice but to keep going back to the points that have already been proven wrong.

    How to lower/deepen voice through relaxing larynx and voice voice box ?

    Every morning or at least, almost every morning I wake up, I find my self having a very rich, deep sounding voice.





    But as the day goes by, it goes away. The first 15 minutes at the very minimum remains deep. And it remains that away up to maximum of 2 hours. The reason it's like that in the morning is because the vocal chords are relaxed straight after I wake up therefore creating a good rich sound.





    But how can I keep it that way. Do any of you's know any vocal exercise or anything that loosens and relaxes the larynx completely. And please don't say accept nature and be happy with the voice you got. Don't say that because I know I can get a deep voice. It happens almost every morning. But I don't know how to keep it that way. For everything, practise makes perfect. And I'm pretty sure, just like anything else, be it sport or job. I can train my voice to get it deeper





    So can someone please give me methods on relaxing and lowering my voice.





    Thanks.How to lower/deepen voice through relaxing larynx and voice voice box ?
    I hear ya! I have the same problem. One thing that works really good (but, I don't recommend it) is to go out and get yourself a sore throat. That will bring out the bass notes for sure. You can also achieve that by not talking. If I'm going to record something and I need a low range for it, I purposefully don't talk until after the recording sesson. I'm a songwriter I record my own demos and often sing 5 part harmony on five seperate tracks all by myself. It also helps for those really low and really high notes to use an electronic voice correction system. There are several on the market today and you should go play with a few of them and see what they can do for you. I can even make myself sound an octave higher or an octave lower using electronic voice correction. If you're not singing and you just want that low voice for pickin up girls (works really good for that too) then the electronic voice correction won't help you. You could try yawning. That is a natural means of relaxing but, I have no experience with that lowering your voice. Never tried it for that purpose. I wouldn't do that in front of the girls either. I'm not so sure it's just a matter of relaxing the vocal chords either. I think that in my case, since I've had post nasal drip all my life that my vocal cords are coated in the morning and since they are a little thicker than normal, my voice sounds lower. But, that is just a theory, I'm not sure that is a scientific fact. You can also just think low. When I need to belt out a low sounding note, I can usually do it. It's easier to sing it than speak it though.

    How to comfort my twin brother?

    So my twin brother (techniqually he's older) just went though a really rough breakup with a girl he had been dating for almost 3 years. So now my usually outgoing, happy brother is miserable, and I want to comfort him through this. Any advice on how to do so? We are extremely close, but I don't want to say the wrong thing.





    Thanks. We are 18 if that helps.How to comfort my twin brother?
    Sometime you just have to work things out on your own. But it's so nice that you care about him.How to comfort my twin brother?
    I understand why you might worry about saying the wrong thing and maybe upsetting him more, so just say this: ';I know you are going through a tough time. I'm not sure how to help you, but I want you to know that I love you very much and I hope you will tell me, when you are ready, what I can do to help you.';


    This will let him know that you care and, when he is ready to talk, he will let you know.


    You might even want to write this in a card and leave it where he is sure to find it.


    If he tells you that he doesn't know what he needs, you can tell him that just getting out of the house and doing something will at least help keep his mind off of the situation, and ask him where he would like to go with you.


    You sound like a really great sister and a nice person. Good luck to you and your brother.
    Do what he want to do, if he play video games join him, if he like any games play with him or watch him play if he play any sports.
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  • What is the kind of schooling you need to be an anestheiologist?

    Can anyone tell me what kinda schooling you have to go through? Also how long it is before its all said and done.


    ThanksWhat is the kind of schooling you need to be an anestheiologist?
    school? Job?What is the kind of schooling you need to be an anestheiologist?
    4 years of college (major in anything and take the premed courses), 4 years of medical school, and 5 years of residency (training).

    How do you feel when you are going through the old photographs..?

    Dont those nice memories come back to you..??





    good day..


    :)





    thanks:)How do you feel when you are going through the old photographs..?
    often times lost .. as in ';who tf'; is this??





    or I really hate that photo!! ugh sigh burn them all LOLOLHow do you feel when you are going through the old photographs..?
    I Feel Great.
    yes.....like they say, a picture can speak a thousand words.
    Reminisce On The Good Times............
    i get all sad cuz we're all seperated now..SAD FACE!!
    I love looking through old photos, I miss the old days and wish I could go back to them again :)
    Most of them make me laugh.
    nice n bad memories comes back
    I feel happy
    Yes but they make me sad sometimes :(





    Sure miss the old days.
    i don't have a photo album, i don't like pics ,,,,,,,,there are many reasons
    How the time went bye, but how happy I am to have such a childhood. and sad cause I miss my grandma and tio, when I see the pictures they're in.
    I feel very nostalgic.
    Yes! Rejuvenating....
    Hi,





    I am overjoyed.. sometimes tears fill my eyes when I go through some good old photos... :)
    Like time in a bottle,and me being inside of it.
    i get a happy tear...
    happy, joy, and a kind of feelings.
    feel like going back in time
    Yes, and those memories always make me feel sad, those happy days are gone now, never again will they be
    nice ques...it really feels gr8 to travel through it..it reminds u of the past :)

    I run a business and go through about 2 cameras a month.If anyone knows what would be a good camera dock combo?

    I run a business and go through about 2 cameras a month.Does anyone know what would be a good camera with a charging station to use for about 100 pictures a day?.How old or quality of pictures (MP) is not important.The cheaper the better and I would ask that there be a lot available.Or maybe a cheap commercil grade camera with dock? Thanks soooo much !!


    Any ideas are so greatly apprieciated!

    How can I earn money online quickly with no site?

    Hi I was wondering how to earn money online with no site. Is it possible to look at ads and earn money? I'm looking to spend it on eBay so preferably through paypal maybe? A site name and instruction or a video would be very helpul. Thank you.How can I earn money online quickly with no site?
    i need the same as you, same boat :)How can I earn money online quickly with no site?
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    How do you let go of the past, of pain and hurt?

    ive had my heartbroken, been through things noone should have to go through and always i hear people say you have to let go of the past... but how do you do that?How do you let go of the past, of pain and hurt?
    Time heals all wounds. Get out, do different things.How do you let go of the past, of pain and hurt?
    lots and lots of Jack Daniels black label!
    Two things. First, put yourself in the other person's situation. For whatever reason, you weren't right for them. Would you, in their situation, be happy if you'd stayed in a situation with the wrong person? How would you feel about having to break someone's heart? Understanding this will help you accept that what they did was inevitable.





    Second, think of the good that came to you from the relationship. Even the most hurtful relationship I had taught me what I wanted in a partner, how to better express my love, and to exit relationships quickly if they clearly weren't going to work. These lessons, though learned with a lot of pain and loss, helped me find, win, and marry a wonderful wife.
    Well depends on how bad the event was, time will soften it until it is gone.





    So either just wait for it to go or be rational and just forget it. It's certainly isn't easy and it might pop in your head once or twice but you just have to push it away.





    Pretend that it never happened and some day you will forget it completely.

    How do I untrain a cat who loves to poop in bath tubs?

    She was not my cat to train and never seemed to want to use a litter box, the way her sister has always done. I had to remove them from their home in an apartment upstairs and was able, with the help of Feliway, to get her to use side-by-side litter boxes, one with just paper, since I thought she must hate litter. She also loves to go in a little-used hallway, but I had that blocked off. We had to rip out all carpeting in the apartment and have gone through so much to retrain her; now it is time to reintroduce her to the apartment and she went right for the tub.How do I untrain a cat who loves to poop in bath tubs?
    You blocked the hallway, now make the tub her worst enemy...water.


    Put water in it %26amp; then set the litter box nearby.





    After she uses the box - inch it s l o w l y to the room you want it in over time.How do I untrain a cat who loves to poop in bath tubs?
    LOL!


    Thats pretty funny. But... probably not for whoever cleans the tub.


    Maybe get some bathtub like material and put it in a litter box instead of litter.


    You could also just close the bathroom door and maybe get keys for it if shes like my cat and can open doors. Just leave the keys on the table or something?


    But what I would do is what I said earlier - put bathtub like stuff inside the box and close the bathroom door, so she has to use the litter box
    With a potato sack and a large bucket of water :)





    - Close the bathroom door


    - block the bath


    - Fill the bath?
    OK, I'm sorry, but that is really funny to an outsider! At least she's trying to use porcelain in the way it was meant to be used for one piece of bathroom 'equipment'. Water in the tub is a good idea, also putting crumpled aluminum foil in the tub with also scare the bejesus out of her. If you have noticed when she uses the 'toilet' them maybe you could train her like a dog and put her in the bathroom with the litter box at the appropriate time...
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  • How do I make my dark brown hair dye fade faster?

    I have naturally blond hair and got my hair dyed to a very dark brown, almost black. I liked it but it faded fast to now just a dark brown and some of my blond is showing through. I wanna go back to blond but I don't want it to turn an orangish color. So before I go in to get it dyed blond, how can I get the color to fade faster but not damage my hair?How do I make my dark brown hair dye fade faster?
    use a clarifying shampoo it will strip away some of the color

    Having problems getting into apps through internet exployer on Facebook?

    When I go on my website Facebook I keep getting cannot display this page when trying to access my applications on Facebook. Is this just through Internet Explorer because I don't know how to reach them.Having problems getting into apps through internet exployer on Facebook?
    I'm using Firefox, and I keep getting the same page. I think FB is having issues with some of their servers.Having problems getting into apps through internet exployer on Facebook?
    Something is definitely wrong with FB. I can't get on it either.

    How did your toddler transition to sleeping without a diaper?

    My 2 1/2 year old daughter has been potty trained during waking hours for several weeks now, but I always put a pad under her for nap time and in the car (in case she falls asleep). And she still wears a night diaper as well.





    Occasionally she wakes up dry after her naps. And in the last few days, she has emphatically removed any pad that I tried to put down for nap or in the car. Since she is insistent that she doesn't need/want the pad, I have decided to follow her lead on this - but I braced myself for a mess to clean up. To my surprise, she has consistently awakened dry for the past few days.





    Did your toddler transition themselves to 'no diaper/pad' for naps? Or did you do anything to aid in that transition? How soon after did your toddler also stay dry through the night? And was that also a natural transition or did you do anything to prompt it?How did your toddler transition to sleeping without a diaper?
    My older son didn't take naps by the time he was potty trained (he gave up naps at 11 months old and was day time potty trained by 12 months old).





    I started putting my older son in underwear to sleep when he woke up dry for an entire month straight. He really wanted to wear underwear to bed starting a few days before that but i told him not til he kept himself dry during the night for at least a month, and so i think it was both of us who did the transition, he wanted it and i made sure we'd be more likely to suceed by waiting til he was dry for a long time. And he's only had an accident at night, 1 time and it was when he was sick. He is now nearly 23 months old (will be on May 3rd).





    Hope this helps, :DHow did your toddler transition to sleeping without a diaper?
    We waited until they were consistently waking up with dry pull-ups (training diapers). For the kids I cared for, they were both nearly four when this happened. Of course, we did our best to facilitate their progress by making sure they used the toilet before going to bed, but the kids were pretty resistant to letting go of the pull-ups, and no attention was given to their potty needs before I arrived at 8:00 AM, so it just took longer. (Some kids pee in the morning, not wanting to get out of bed, rather than actually peeing in their sleep.)





    Your daughter is doing great by the sound of it. If she likes wearing her big-girl panties, and is staying dry, that's perfect. Just make sure you use a waterproof cover for her mattress. You were probably doing this to protect from diaper leaks before potty training started, though.
    Once my daughter started potty training I never put a diaper back on her - for sleep AND going out she was in panties. She had 1 acccident at night , no biggie just washed the bedding. At first I made sure she peed before we left the house and before nap/bed time. She did well and didnt need protection just in case. MY daughter decided it was time to use the potty at 20 months and from that day and night foward she was potty trained. If your daughter is waking consistantly dry let her be! Just ask her to go to the potty before she sleeps and she should be ok. Oh and in the beginning I limited her water intake like 2 hours before bed, I still kinda do but shes totally fine now.
    My daughter did it herself. She didn't fully train during the days until a little after age 3 and we were careful about having a pull-up on her for naps and bedtime. We noticed that she woke up dry first for naps and then for bedtime. So we used undies at naptime. And all went well. Then we used undies at bedtime and that went fine too. It seems she knew what she was ready for. And I was shocked when about three months ago, she showed up in my room at night telling me she had to go downstairs to potty (we don't have a bathroom upstairs). So I guess she has the sense of when she has to go potty even at night. Let your daughter have a little bit of rein. It sounds like you are following her lead and continue to do so, unless of course she backslides. Then calmly retrace your steps and wait for her to be ready again. Congrats!! It is so exciting to get rid of diapers once and for all (well, with one kid anyway...we have two more in them right now!)
    My daughter is now 3. I used to put a diaper on her every time she napped and at night and she would we them every night. I ran out of the pullups one night and just said ';screw it';, if she has an accident I'll just clean it up. The next morning she woke up dry! I thought it was just a fluke so I tried it again at nap time and the next few nights. She stayed dry!! Whenever I put a diaper on her at night she WILL wet it but when she wears panties she stays dry. Sounds like our kiddos are the same!
    When my daughter was two she was potty trained completely. During the night I would wake her up every two hours to make her go to the restroom. It took a lot on my part and most of the time I was still sleep on the way to the restroom with her but in about 2 weeks she had it down by herself. She would automatically wake up, go to the bathroom and then come back to sleep. It also helped because her room lead into the bathroom and we kept that light on all night.


    As far as the no diaper during nap, she never wet herself during the day. I just made her go to the bathroom before she went down and as soon as she got up. She only napped for an hour or maybe 1 1/2 hours. Maybe if you shorten her nap if she sleeps very long. Also my daughter would get treats like stickers or a sucker if she did not wet herself so she tried very hard to get them. Maybe that can work for you if you are not already doing it. Good luck and hope everything works out.
    So she pees and poops the bed?





    To get her to stop doing that, I'll suggest you do what my mom did when I pissed the bed when I was a little kid:





    Whenever i did the sheets, she would make me sleep in them for a few nights, as-is, as punishment for pissing the bed.





    Most people might call this abuse, but i asure you, it worked.


    Sometimes you gotta be cruel to be kind.





    I don't think I'll do that when I have kids though.

    What must it have felt like to live in America in the 1930's?

    Considering the events and people of the 1930's decade, explain what it must have felt like to live during this decade. In other words, how do you describe the 1930's decade through its events and people??What must it have felt like to live in America in the 1930's?
    Poor since the Great Depression was going on.What must it have felt like to live in America in the 1930's?
    I can tell you a little, based on what I remember. Mother woke me at midnight one night. I heard car horns and firecrackers outside our house. Mother said, ';It's New Year's Eve, and 1939 is starting now.'; What else I remember: Mother had two (s) house dresses. She could wear one while the other was in the wash. She was a stay-at-home Mom, of course -- like all the other Moms I knew. Dad was a big fan of radio, and we had a nice big Philco in the living room. Dad loved to listen to baseball games, which at that time were far more popular than football, if you can imagine that! No one had air conditioning. In the summer we would sit on our front porch and say ';hello'; to all the neighbors who would be walking up and down our street. Dad was lucky he had a job with the city, so we were not as desperate as many people were when they lost their jobs and homes. We even went to a movie once in a (great!) while -- Dad and Mother only had to pay 45 cents each for admission, if we got there before the prices changed at 6 o-clock (to 65 cents!) My ticket cost only 17 cents! A big attraction at the movie theater was a game called Ten-O-Win. Between the two movies (in black and white, for sure) the house lights would come up, and one of the uniformed ushers would pull the Ten-O-Win machine onto the theater stage. It was a big wheel with two clock-like ';hands.'; The theater manager would spin one hand clockwise, and the other hand counter clockwise. Where the hands stopped would determine which ticket holder would win a prize -- sometimes as much as $5!





    Hope this helps.

    If a person dies with no relatives, how do they find your will? I mean, can you file it publicly?

    Or do they have to look through your house to find it?If a person dies with no relatives, how do they find your will? I mean, can you file it publicly?
    You can file a will in the county recorder's office. You'd still need something that would tell people where to look. I worked in a legal office on a military base and we did not maintain the originals of the wills...we sent people home with their originals and a checklist of things to gather up. What's generally recommended is get a fireproof box for your important documents. Give a copy of the will and any instructions to your executor with instructions on how to get to your original. Some people choose to give the original to the executor and put the copy with instructions on how to reach the executor in their fire-proof safe. Do NOT put it in a safe deposit box because once you die your box is locked until the will is executed...If a person dies with no relatives, how do they find your will? I mean, can you file it publicly?
    If the person has a will it should be with a lawyer. A will with no lawyer involved is usually not valid. So if they find a written will that says give everything to my cat, it would be ignored. In this case sadly no one would look for any will. The State would take ownership and contract people to prepare the home, probable for auction. They would put anything in the garbage.

    How can I make money online fast at home?

    I want to make oney online fast at home,but I do not know how I can do.I know many people can manke money online fast at home through the Internet,it is very good.Please help me,tell me your idea of make money online fast,thanks!How can I make money online fast at home?
    There are several survey sites that are legit,, your not going to get rich doing them though. Do not give anyone your SSN there are lots of sites out there that are legit and they do not need this info from you. Nor do you have to pay to join.How can I make money online fast at home?
    I know many people that make a lot of money online. I even know someone that made over $6000 in 4 hours last week. Is this common? NO, not at all. The only reason he made so much is because he had an established business with an established reputation. Unfortunately the company he was working with decided not to offer their opportunity any longer. So he moved his ';team'; to another opportunity. The only possibility of making money fast with an opportunity is:


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    As a Online Entrepreneur and Attraction Marketing Coach, I see people make money everyday and lose money, so it really depends on you, your dedication and your work ethics. You would need to put together a 90 day plan (this is average). You may have to work 2-90 day plans back to back to see results.





    Another option is selling on Ebay. I have had some success with them, selling general merchandise new and old that I no longer have use for.





    Hope this helps, if you need any assistance you can always look up my name on Google to check my credibility.
    YouData. It's free to use, and all you have to do is click on ads, BUT you don't have to do anything. Just click on the ads, and close the popup right away, and you still get credit. I just got a dollar in less than 30 seconds, and payouts are every Friday, NO minimum payout.





    I have gotten about $20 total from YouData in not that long of a time, and it really does work. It's no scam, since you don't even have to sign-up for anything, just click on the links and close them right away.





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    Smart Bargain Hunters is a good website for making money online. If you are patient and use a good bidding strategy you can usually win items that cost around $300 while only spending $30. Then just sell back the items on Ebay for around retail price.
    There are too many people out there offering get-rich-quick opportunities; they rarely deliver what they promise. The best opportunity I've found (and have made money with) requires a small one-time investment, no monthly fee, no auto-ship or products to buy, incredible training and support, and is a legitimate proven company. Contact me through my profile if you'd like more information.


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  • How old should the child/Teenager be , before the mother/father stops?

    1) Telling him/her when to shower?


    2) Going through their Wardrobe, to make sure its tidy?


    3) Comment on their clothing?


    4) Waking them up in the morning?


    5)Reminding them to do their homework?How old should the child/Teenager be , before the mother/father stops?
    18How old should the child/Teenager be , before the mother/father stops?
    1) around 12-13. that when my parents stopped.


    2) 11-12. they should be responsible.


    3) 15-16. that's usually when they start dressing ';different';


    4) when they get into high school.


    5) you should always do this.
    1) 12


    2) I don't see anything wrong with that, unless there's someting in there that shouldn't be


    3) Honestly, when the teenager has bought it themselves


    4) About 14


    5) 14
    I'd say when they get to high school because they should be behaving more responsibly by then. Everyone matures at different rates of course and just because mom or dad stops telling them when to do those things, does not mean that they wont need help/ instructions some of the time. Growing up is scary for the child/teen and for the mom/dad. I might suggest buying them an alarm clock for waking up in the morning, it's always helped me and it's nice to wake up to your favorite radio station in the morning. Good luck!





    -Kaylie!
    Unfortunatly for me I have to be reminded XP and i'm plenty old enough!


    I'm guessing based on my brother.....


    1)9-10


    2)9-11


    3)12-14


    4)10-11


    5)10-12
    1) 12-13


    2) 14-15


    3) any age


    4) 15-16


    5) 13-14
    This is not a matter of age, is a matter of confidence and maturity of the kid and the family.


    Some people believe that when their children are still living at their parent's home, even when they are adults, the parents have the right to monitor their way of life.


    If this is your case, try to do your homework before being asked, to keep your bedroom clean, to take a shower, etc, until they get to trust you more.


    Good luck!!!
    I've learned the earlier you start teaching them the easier it gets cuz then they know where u stand and what is expected of them b4 the hit thier hormonal teenage years


    :)and I think it depends on your child's personality. My child is 10 and i usually have to remind him to take a shower. Hopefully that'll change when he starts having crushes!


    #2 I will do a room check once a week to make sure HE'S keeping it tidy or when i do laundry. but keeping things tidy has been his responsibility since he was about 6.


    #3 I dont comment on his clothing unless they are dirty and have holes otherwise it's a losing battle because that is his style and it's not hurting anyone. Hopefully he'll just care more as he gets older!


    #4 A alarm clock might help


    #5Unless your kid loves to do homework I'm guessing you';ll have to remind him until he graduates!! if he /she knows you expect him to do his homework b4 anything else u probaly wont have to remind as much


    anyways... thier probally is no set age, you will know when, just trust your intuition. only you know whats best for your child even though they will remind you that you don't ;)


    - goodluck
    The parents should remain the parents until the child is ready to leave and pay for their own rent, apartment, food, clothing, bills, etc. As long as you live in your parent's home and depend on your parents for your food, clothing, bills, etc...then you need to abide by the rules and obey your parents. The least you can show them is respect. They shouldn't have to tell you to do your homework, wake you up, tell you to take a shower or remind you to clean your room. With all that they do and provide for you, you should be able to do chores on your own without being told.

    How they happen to be ';Quarter Sensed Worshipers'; who talk bad against Worshiping GOD thru Images from IDOL?

    Actually Vedic Sages devised a wonderful system of worship where we use our all five senses ( hear ,view , touch , smell ,taste) to feel about GOD .


    1:-We Hindus feel devotion to God on hearing word names like ';OM , Parmatma , Par Brahm ';, etc.


    2:- We feel devotion to God on seeing visuals ( images) like '; Three Eyed , Four Handed , Eight Handed, Glow of Sun %26amp; Fire ';.


    3:- We feel devotion to God with the smell %26amp; taste of Sacred Prasad ( eatable).


    4:- We feel devotion to God with the touch of Holy River while having holy dip in it .





    You must be aware that both sound and light energy emanating from certain source like an object , vocal chord or an instrument create sensation in our ear and eye respectively and create inner feelings .


    With certain specific sound names and visuals these feelings may be towards God , then why oppose images from idols ?


    I wish to add some words in this regard.


    Actually those talking bad about idol worship are misled %26amp; misguided people using only ';one sense (hear sense) i.e. quarter sense'; to feel about God as against using all ';five senses i.e. full sense';.


    Those talking bad about idols( misguided %26amp; misled) also oppose strongly %26amp; ridicule the fact that all forms of energy %26amp; matter are various forms of one God himself. All of them oppose proudly %26amp; spread misconception about our idol worship . Many of we Hindus have been influenced by them %26amp; do not have full faith %26amp; do worship half hearted.


    I request you also think about logics in support of idol worship of God and remove the misconceptions, half truths etc spread by ';quarter sensed worshippers';.





    One more fact, these quarter sensed worshippers propogate God's worship through one sense only (i.e. hear sense). that is why today in the world we can just hear goodness everywhere . We dont see , taste, smell ,touch goodness in the world.


    If we worship %26amp; feel about God through all senses, then God will send his all blessings to us.


    Even non believers feel about God on viewing idols of God ,though in negative way.


    You see Eight Handed form is beautiful small representation of God's manifestation in the form of Apera Parakrity( eight type i.e. earth, water, fire ,air ,sky, mind ,intelligence and sense of feeling separate from universe) and Pera Prakrity ( spritual energy i.e. innumerable living entities). Here eight hands represent apera prakrity and lion represents pera prakrity.


    Kindly ..... Please... one should never talk bad against worshipping God through idols . In this way one should not invite wrath of God and then long lasting hell.


    Thanks. Plz give your opinion.How they happen to be ';Quarter Sensed Worshipers'; who talk bad against Worshiping GOD thru Images from IDOL?
    We Christians go by the Bible. It tells me that idols are only wood and stone. They can't think, hear, speak, or do anything for people. We are not to make any graven images, bow down, or worship them. We are to worship the Lord God alone. ';Thou shalt worship the Lord thy God and him only shalt thou serve.'; ';I am the Lord and beside me there is no savior.'; ';I am the Lord. My glory will I not give to another, neither my praise to graven images.'; I believe the God of Israel is the only one.





    With so many gods, where do Hindus loyalties lie? Which god or gods do you serve? What happens if you serve one and not another? Does the other god get jealous and do something to you? In my personal life, I've prayed to God and always got help. I've proved him over and over. In the words of Joshua, ';As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.';How they happen to be ';Quarter Sensed Worshipers'; who talk bad against Worshiping GOD thru Images from IDOL?
    OWWWWW WALLLL OF TEXTTTT!!!!!!!!!!! make ur Q shorter
    @ Cindy





    Go do some non-Evangelical reading before you type more on the subject of idol worship. Hindus don't worship the image before them, we pray to God using the idol only as a way to focus our minds.





    Our loyalties lie with the omnipotent and impersonal being you only know as God. Our God does not have fits of rage or favor one group of people over another. Our God does not get jealous like yours does. Our God knows that people will not accept one man as the savior of mankind, no matter how pious of a life he lived.





    I'm tired of the brainless banter of so many Evangelical Christians. You can say these things but when you come against someone who knows what they're talking about you have no choice but to keep going back to the points that have already been proven wrong.

    How long does your body go through a nightmare after stopping birth control?

    I just don't know what to do. In October I stopped using birth control and I had been using it for 3 years. I got on it for irregular cycles and acne. Three months after I got off it, everything was fine. My cycles were still coming on time, and I only a few pimples. But after those three months my things just went down hill. Recently I have been trying to stop my out of control acne. Every time I get the pimples down, more pop up and stay on my face for a long time. It's those cystic ones too that don't dry out no matter what u put on it. I've tried everything: lemon juice, 100% aloe vera, and am down to just using natural African Black Soap and Shea Butter, and that worked for about a week but now it's as if I don't even use the stuff anymore. I haven't had my cycle in four months since those 3 months it came regularly prior to me getting off the pill, and the scars from this acne on my face with more still coming just dulls my real skin tone. Has anyone gone through this? I just don't know what else to do. I've tried everything. I eat healthy, I drink water, I take my vitamins, nothing is working. Even my hair comes out easily when I come it. I figure if my cycle would just go ahead and come, maybe my acne will slow down and start clearing up, because it could be connected (am I right or wrong?) Can anyone help? this is embarrassing and I'm tired of trying to cover it with makeup every blue moon if I decide to go out, when my face is so bad that it doesn't even hide it anyway. *smh*
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  • What is the kind of schooling you need to be an anestheiologist?

    Can anyone tell me what kinda schooling you have to go through? Also how long it is before its all said and done.


    ThanksWhat is the kind of schooling you need to be an anestheiologist?
    school? Job?What is the kind of schooling you need to be an anestheiologist?
    4 years of college (major in anything and take the premed courses), 4 years of medical school, and 5 years of residency (training).

    How do you feel when you are going through the old photographs..?

    Dont those nice memories come back to you..??





    good day..


    :)





    thanks:)How do you feel when you are going through the old photographs..?
    often times lost .. as in ';who tf'; is this??





    or I really hate that photo!! ugh sigh burn them all LOLOLHow do you feel when you are going through the old photographs..?
    I Feel Great.
    yes.....like they say, a picture can speak a thousand words.
    Reminisce On The Good Times............
    i get all sad cuz we're all seperated now..SAD FACE!!
    I love looking through old photos, I miss the old days and wish I could go back to them again :)
    Most of them make me laugh.
    nice n bad memories comes back
    I feel happy
    Yes but they make me sad sometimes :(





    Sure miss the old days.
    i don't have a photo album, i don't like pics ,,,,,,,,there are many reasons
    How the time went bye, but how happy I am to have such a childhood. and sad cause I miss my grandma and tio, when I see the pictures they're in.
    I feel very nostalgic.
    Yes! Rejuvenating....
    Hi,





    I am overjoyed.. sometimes tears fill my eyes when I go through some good old photos... :)
    Like time in a bottle,and me being inside of it.
    i get a happy tear...
    happy, joy, and a kind of feelings.
    feel like going back in time
    Yes, and those memories always make me feel sad, those happy days are gone now, never again will they be